☁ The Blindspot in Your Self-Care Rituals

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The Blind Spot in Your Self-Care Routine

Last week, UK headlines were all about hosepipe bans. The message is clear: save water.

How much water are you saving?

In Germany, the average person uses 122 litres of water per day. In the UK, it's 142 litres. The UK government's target? 110 litres per person, per day by 2050.

In Germany, the largest share of household water is used for personal hygiene (36%), closely followed by toilet flushing (27%).

That’s 66% of water consumption having a wash & flush impact. What you rinse away matters.

The proportion used for laundry (12%) and dishwashing (6%) is decreasing as household appliances become more efficient.

Here’s where it gets interesting: Across Europe, personal care products and pharmaceuticals now account for 92% of the toxic load in our wastewater.

That’s not factory runoff.

That’s shampoo.
Face wash.
Pain relief gels.
Deodorant.
Perfume.

Everyday products from our shelves, sinks, and showers are making their way into rivers, lakes, and streams.

The EU is trying to tackle the problem. But the real shift starts much closer to home: with what we use, how we rinse, and why we’re not talking about any of this.

We obsess over low-flow toilets and filter showerheads.

We track litres for hydration.
We measure flow.
We optimise everything, except the contents of the water we send down the drain.

Because while we're using less water, we're filling that water with more.

Synthetic fragrance.
Preservatives.
Pharmaceuticals.

We’re polluting water in the name of feeling clean.

We lather.
We rinse.
We repeat.

The average person uses 12 personal care products a day in 2023.

That is up from 2004, when EWG released a study that found the average adult used nine products a day, with a combined 126 individual chemical ingredients.

Each time, we send a cocktail of residues into rivers, streams, and wastewater systems that were never built to handle them.

Why aren’t we asking deeper questions?

Why do we believe more foam equals more purity?

Here’s the paradox: The very rituals we associate with cleanliness are quietly contaminating the very water we claim to protect.

Our relationship with water is still transactional. Something to manage, reduce, or contain.

But what if water is more than that? What if it’s a mirror, reflecting how we treat our bodies, our selves, our planet?

Why do we feel the need to scrub ourselves into worthiness?

What version of “clean” are we chasing?

And who sold it to us?

The wastewater system is straining under the weight of our health and wellness rituals.

At some point, the cost of “clean” will catch up.

And we’ll wish we’d used less.

But this is not common knowledge.

Here is an example.

Let’s Talk About Voltaren® Gel.
It’s an anti-inflammatory used by millions, containing diclofenac, a pharmaceutical now showing up in rivers and lakes. It’s harming fish, aquatic life.

Between 2016 to 2021, Germany held an expert roundtable to address it. To change the disposal route from washing away, to wiping it off and disposing in general household waste. And yet, today, the product leaflet still reads: “Excess product should be washed off with water.”

But one small shift changes everything: Wiping hands with a paper towel that goes into the bin before rinsing. That’s it. No expensive tech.

The recommendation is just: Wischen statt Waschen. So why isn’t this common knowledge by now?

What would Water-Friendly Personal Care look like?

• Product labels that say what not to rinse.

• Rituals that honour both your skin and the stream.

• Formulas made with water’s wellbeing in mind, not just skin absorption rates.

• Habits rooted in a future where water is respected, not just “used.”

Because in the end, it’s not just about how much water we use.
It’s about what we put in it and why.

We are part of a living system.

And how we do self-care, must reflect that.

— Clouds

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The design is minimal and plastic-free, which I deeply appreciate. It’s sleek, movable, and easy to switch.

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